Not Societies Teenage Girl

Historically, the invention of the "teenager" started in the 19th century, around the time of the Roaring Twenties. In my current History of America’s (HOA) class, I learned that the automobile, otherwise known as a car, was the prime factor for the development of what we now refer to as a teenager. The automobile ultimately gave children in these age groups more freedom from parental supervision. This revolutionized young dating and influenced a number of state schooling laws, pushing for longer education. Over time, with both technological advancements and changing societal customs and values, the teenager was born.

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In my perspective, I think today's society views teenagers as troublemakers, rule breakers, and as much as this sounds like something Demi Lovato would say, most people would agree. I think. As an Indian being born and brought up in a country that has contradicting ideologies from what my parents were taught in India, it leaves us with two empty social holes, and depending on how much of an Indian or American influence you have determines which hole you prioritize. The first hole, the Indian hole, contains grades, college, and most importantly the decision between medical school or engineering. The second hole, the American hole, contains FNL, “YOLO,” and in summary, fun.

Growing up, I was taught that education comes before everything. Which I agree with to a certain extent. For example, I would choose my family over my studies anyday, but my mental health comes after I finish studying. I am currently an international baccalaureate (IB) student attending my junior year at my high school, basically making me a freshman in college. I like telling people that I am an IB student because it gives me a sense of determination and it makes me feel moderately smart. But the work and studying that comes with it is something I have never experienced before. Don't get me wrong, I am so grateful to have the opportunity to be a part of the IB program, all while going to an amazing school. But the expectations that have to be met will take some getting used to.

On Friday nights, instead of going to football games, I am at home making sure I’ve turned my assignments in and use all my free time to study. Instead of going to class parties, me and my friends go to the library to study more. Homecoming and prom are the only exceptions. And you can't forget about SAT and ACT preparation as well. Eating and sleeping feel like chores now because my brain is always telling me to do something related to my academics. If not by brain, then my parents. But when I think about the future, and getting into a good college, all the work I am drowning myself in right now doesn't seem too bad. Even though it's exhausting both mentally and physically, I know that I’ll eventually be able to make my parents proud. Because I don't think I would be able to sacrifice as much as they did for me.